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Couples Counselling

Our couples therapists provide in-person and video counselling.

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Need help booking your appointment?  Contact us at 905-321-0550.

Finding Connection When Life Pulls You Apart

Do you and your partner find it hard to talk about your needs without getting stuck in the same conflict?

 

Are you feeling discouraged, disconnected, or unsure where to turn next?

 

You don’t have to navigate this alone.

 

Couples counselling offers a place to rebuild trust, improve communication, and feel close again.

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Why Couples Seek Counselling

Couples counselling is a type of therapy that helps two people in a committed relationship work through difficulties and strengthen how they relate to one another. It can be helpful whether you’re facing serious challenges or simply want to take a proactive step to enhance the relationship you already have.

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Couples often reach out because of ongoing conflict, feeling disconnected, struggles with intimacy,

broken trust after an affair, or stress that comes from major life changes.

 

These challenges don’t have to define your relationship, but they do take a toll when left unaddressed.

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That’s usually when couples decide, “we can’t keep doing this on our own.”

What Happens in Counselling

Couples counselling gives you a chance to step out of old patterns and pay attention to what’s really happening between you. Sessions are a mix of conversation, reflection, and practice. The focus is on slowing things down so both partners feel heard, and on learning new ways of connecting.

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In counselling, couples can:​​​

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  • Learn how to talk about needs without falling into the same fight

  • Find calmer ways to handle tense or stressful moments

  • Recognize the patterns that keep pulling them apart and try something different

  • Rebuild trust after hurt or disappointment

  • Rediscover closeness, even when life feels demanding

​The process helps couples move from being stuck in the same cycles to feeling more connected and able to face challenges together.

New patterns. Less tension. More closeness.

When couples break free from old cycles, they regain the sense of being partners, not opponents. Instead of circling back to the same fight, conversations start to feel productive.

 

Instead of distance or silence, there’s a way back to comfort, affection, and being on the same side again.

 

Couples talk about the relief of finally being understood,

the ease of sharing laughter,

and the sense that they can face any challenge together.

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Restore Connection

Reignite intimacy and build the comfort of being truly known by each other.

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Rebuild Trust

Heal broken commitments and learn how to rely on one another again.

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Renew Hope

Take your relationship to the next level and get excited about a better future together. 

We Love Helping Relationships Thrive

Your partnership is the most significant factor in your life.

 

When it's struggling, it can trigger a downward spiral: the stress drains your health, impacts your mood, interferes with your work, and erodes your self-worth.

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We are here to help reverse that momentum, to create an upward spiral.

 

The safety, security and love that you reclaim in your relationship will energize you,

boost your confidence, improve your mood, help you focus on work and other important activities, and bring vitality to your life again.

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To help you get there, we rely on the best available couples approaches: Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) as the roadmap to quickly build safety and help you reconnect, and the Gottman Method to provide the concrete skills to work through any conflict.

 

We are here help you break old patterns, learn new ones, and create a relationship you love. 

Need Help Choosing A Couples Therapist?

You don't want just any therapist. You want the right therapist for your relationship.

Our client care team is here to help you find the best person for your specific needs.

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Make it your goal to create a marriage that feels like the safest place on Earth.

GREG SMALLEY

HIGHLY RATED PSYCHOTHERAPISTS IN NIAGARA SINCE 2008

ABMA COUNSELLING

4056 DORCHESTER RD

NIAGARA FALLS, ON   

L2E 6M9

We work with adults, children and families to help strengthen relationships and improve lives. 

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We are a team of dedicated professionals, passionate about helping individuals, couples and families strengthen their relationships and improve their lives. Abma Counselling has been providing trusted psychotherapy in Niagara since 2008 for a wide variety of issues, including stress, depression, anxiety, ADD, relationships, marriage, and addictions. Counselling, Psychotherapy, Psychologist for Niagara Falls, St. Catharines, Fonthill, St. David's, Niagara-on-the-Lake, Virgil, Fort Erie, Ridgeway, Beamsville, Jordan, Vineland, Grimsby, Thorold and Welland.

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