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Carmen Esau, MA, RP (Q)

Registered Psychotherapist (Qualilfying)

Couples, Adults

  • Couples Counselling

  • Anxiety, Stress, Worry

  • Relationship Challenges

  • Finance-related Stress

About Carmen

Every individual and couple has a unique story, and I’m here to walk with you as you explore yours. I offer a compassionate and secure space for you to navigate life's challenges, creating a welcoming environment where you can feel heard and understood.
 

Areas of Expertise
I specialize in couples therapy and individual therapy for adults, integrating various therapeutic approaches tailored to meet your specific needs. With training in Gottman Couples Therapy, Transformative Couples Therapy (TCT), and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and incorporating Solution-Focused Therapy (SFT), Emotion-Focused Therapy (EFT), and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT). I work with individuals and couples facing relationship struggles, financial stress, anxiety, depression, and other life stressors. Whether you're seeking help as an individual or a couple—improving communication, resolving conflict, managing anxiety, or navigating major life changes—I’m here to support you in finding clarity and building stronger relationships.

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Background

My journey to becoming a therapist began with my Bachelor of Arts in Psychology, which I earned in 1997 from Brock University. While I initially began pursuing a Master of Counselling that same year, life circumstances took me on a different path. For 25 years, I worked as a counsellor in a not-for-profit agency, supporting individuals and couples, and as an insolvency counsellor, helping people navigate financial stress. These experiences deepened my understanding of the challenges people face and strengthened my commitment to supporting others. 

 

In 2024, I completed my Master's degree in Counselling, combining both professional and personal life experiences to guide my work today as a Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying).

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Session Expectations
In our sessions, you can expect a warm, non-judgmental environment where we focus on practical steps toward positive change. Together, we’ll explore your thoughts, emotions, and behaviors in a collaborative approach to foster self-understanding and growth.
 

Personal Interests
Outside of the therapy room, you might find me enjoying time with my family, traveling with my husband, or supporting our adult children as they navigate their own paths. Running has been a significant part of my life and mental health journey, helping me to stay grounded and focused. I’ve had the opportunity to participate in several marathons over the years, and I find that being in nature helps me maintain both mental and physical balance.
 

Professional Passion

My goal is to support you as you navigate life’s challenges, providing an empowering space where you can explore your experiences and move forward with greater confidence. I want you to feel understood, supported, and equipped to make meaningful progress in the areas that matter most to you.


Take the first step—use the link below to book your initial session.

Courage is not the absence of fear; courage is fear walking.

- Susan David

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PROVIDING PSYCHOTHERAPY IN NIAGARA SINCE 2008

ABMA COUNSELLING

4056 DORCHESTER RD

NIAGARA FALLS, ON   

L2E 6M9

We work with adults, children and families to help strengthen relationships and improve lives. 

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Abma Counselling has been providing psychotherapy services in Niagara since 2008. What began as a solo practice by Steve Abma has grown into a group practice of several experienced therapists providing treatment for a wide variety of issues, including depression, anxiety, ADD, relationships, marriage, addictions & stress. We are a team of dedicated professionals, passionate about helping individuals, couples and families strengthen their relationships and improve their lives. Counselling, Psychotherapy, Psychologist Services for Niagara Falls, St. Catharines, Fonthill, St. David's, Niagara-on-the-Lake, Virgil, Fort Erie, Ridgeway, Beamsville, Jordan, Vineland, Grimsby, Thorold and Welland.

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